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Easily Create A Hawaii Theme Wedding Anywhere. If you aren't able to have your wedding in Hawaii you can still make your dream Hawaii wedding come true! Below are suggestion on how you can easily create an "island style" wedding. Having a Hawaii theme wedding is a very unique and elegant way to accent your special day. Guests at Hawaii theme weddings tend to be more relaxed and have a great time. You will also find having a Hawaii theme wedding will not cost as much as a more formal wedding ceremony and reception.


There are many ways to incorporate Hawaii traditions and a Hawaii theme so review the suggestions and choose what appeals to you and will make your special day even more memorable.

Whether you are having your wedding on a beach, on a boat, at a lakeside, in a garden, in a backyard, in a home, or in a church it is easy to incorporate touches of Hawaii to your special day...

Send Hawaii Theme Invitations to Your Wedding Guests

You can create your own wedding invitations using your home computer and printer or add touches of Hawaii to professionally printed invitations.
Incorporate Hawaiian words and phrases.
We offer a resource of popular Hawaiian words and phrases.

Translate the invited peoples names into Hawaiian.
We offer a resource of first names translated into Hawaiian.

Include the Lords Prayer in Hawaiian.
We offer a translation of the Lords Prayer into Hawaiian.

Encourage Your Wedding Guests to Wear Hawaiian Attire

Hawaiian attire is very popular and many people have a Hawaiian shirt or dress in their wardrobe, especially those who have visited Hawaii. Since Hawaiian attire is popular many stores offer. Thrift stores are also a great resource for Hawaii attire.

Have Your Wedding Party Dress in Hawaiian Attire

There is no right or wrong way to go about dressing your wedding party for a Hawaii theme wedding. Some people have all the ladies in Hawaiian print dresses and the men in Hawaiian print shirts. Some have the men wear pants while other have them wear shorts. Some wedding couples have the ladies in the Hawaiian print dresses but the men in full tuxedos. How formal or informal you have your wedding party is up to you.

Have Your Wedding Party Wear Leis

A lei is a garland or necklace made from fresh flowers, fresh leaves, silk flowers, nuts, shells, or pretty much anything. There are leis for the neck, head, wrist, and ankles. In Hawaii a lei is given as a symbol of love, respect and appreciation for all kinds of celebrations. For weddings it is popular to have the entire wedding party wear leis. For men who do not want to wear flowers popular masculine leis are maile leis or kukui nut leis. Maile leis are green leafy vine looking leis. Kukui nut leis are made from the nut of the state tree and in ancient Hawaiian times were only give to people of great importance since they were very sacred.  Silk leis, kukui nut leis and shell leis which are a nice economical alternative to fresh leis which require expensive express shipping and special packaging.

For female wedding brides maids and maid of honor a simple touch of aloha can be added with wrist or ankle leis: lifelike silk bougainvillea, silk plumeria, or real kukui nut wrist/ankle leis. They also make nice keepsakes!
Click here to see the silk leis and other island treasures we offer in
our Island Gift Shop!

Bride Wear a Head Lei Rather Than a Formal Veil

For a Hawaii theme wedding a bride can wear a lei on her head rather than a traditional veil. The head lei is know as a haku and sits like a crown of flowers on the brides head. Some brides add a veil on a hair comb to the haku so they have both the formal traditional and the Hawaii traditional options. The veil on a hair comb is typically available through any bridal shop.

Dogs in the Wedding Party

For many people their dog is more than a pet, it is part of their family, and they want to incorporate them into the wedding or have them attend the wedding. The silk wrist/ankle leis work well for small size dogs, silk head leis work well for medium size dogs, and silk neck leis work well for large dogs.

Acknowledge Special People at the Wedding with Leis

For significant people who will be attending the wedding but who are not in the wedding party (parents and/or grandparents of the wedding couple, children of the wedding couple, god parents of the wedding couple, the wedding officiant or minister) a special way to acknowledge them and have them stand out as special people at the wedding is to give them leis.

Have a Hula Girl or Girls Welcome Your Guests with Leis

If you would like to adorn all of your wedding guests in leis a fun thing to do is have one or a few girls/boys dress in Hawaii attire or as hula girls/boys and greet each guest before they are seated for the ceremony with a lei. Silk leis, nut leis, or shell leis are the most economical options when you plan to adorn a number of people in leis. Shell leis are the most cost effective lei available and makes a great keepsake.

Use Strands of Flowers to Decorate Arches, Alters, and Isles at the Ceremony

Strands of fresh and/or silk flowers are the easiest way to add a tropical touch to arches and alters, line the isle, decorate fences and more. Click  here to see the beautiful lifelike silk plumeria garland we offer in our Islands Gift Shop!

Forever Leis and Decorations For A Hawaii Theme Wedding

Lifelike silk leis, shell leis, kukui nut leis, lifelike silk plumeria blooms, and lifelike silk plumeria garland strands make great keepsakes from your wedding. Forever leis and lifelike decorations are a more economical option than fresh leis and fresh decorations which require special packaging and expensive express shipping.

Great ideas for using forever leis and decorations are:

* Wear the forever leis for your wedding rehearsal, rehearsal dinner and/or wedding. Forever leis are available for the neck, head, wrists, and ankles.

* Use lifelike silk plumeria blooms for your flower girl to drop, sprinkle on ground where you will exchange vows, decorate tables, decorate cake boxes or favor boxes, use for flower toss instead of a rice toss.

* Use lifelike silk plumeria garland strands to line the isle the bride will be walking down, to create a circle of flowers where you will exchange vows, on chairs, on trellises, fences, alters, etc.

* After the wedding, drape your forever wedding leis around a photo enlargement from your wedding.

* After the wedding, create a shadowbox with keepsakes from your wedding including the forever leis.

* Do a lei exchange with your forever leis every anniversary to relive your special day and recommit your love.

* Have a luau to celebrate your 1st Anniversary and wear your forever wedding leis to your celebration.

Click here to view the forever leis and decorations we offer in our Island Gift Shop!


Tiki Torches Make Great Decorations for Day or Evening Weddings

Tiki Torches are a great way to add a tropical atmosphere. If the wedding is in the evening the torches can be lit, if the wedding is during the day the tiki torch makes a great flower arrangement holder. To use as a flower arrangement holder as shown below remove the fuel holder and put the fresh or silk flower stems in it's place. Orchid sprays, shower tree branches, anthuriums and other tropical flowers are great for tiki torch flower displays. Silk leis are ideal for attaching on to the torch stand to add more tropical flare. Lightweight chiffon fabric can also be tied between the tiki torches to create an isle, section off areas, etc. Tiki torches are typically available in home improvement stores like Home Depot and Lowes and can also be found in the patio section of stores like Walmart.

Have Romantic Hawaiian Music Playing Before, During, and After the Wedding Ceremony

You can have a live Hawaiian band serenade your guests or play a cd of romantic Hawaiian music. Some popular Hawaiian Wedding songs are:

Hawaiian Wedding Song - performed by Elvis Presley

Ke Kali Nei Au - The Hawaiian Wedding Song performed by Makaha Sons

Love and Honesty - by The Hawaiian Style Band

Ku'ulei Awapuhi - by Hapa

I'll Weave A Lei Of Stars For You - by the Royal Hawaiian Serenaders

Kiss You In The Morning - by Kalaeloa

Stuck On You - by Ekolu

Honestly - by Ekolu

Better Together - by Jack Johnson

My Best Friend - Keahiwai

For the First Time - Keali'i Reichel

In My Life - by The Beatles; performed & interpreted by Keali'i Reichel

Mele 'Ohana - Keali'i Reichel

Somewhere Over the Rainbow & What A Wonderful World - performed by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

Have the Flower Girl Drop Blooms
Down the Isle During the Opening Ceremony

A tropical alternative to the flower girl dropping rose petals is to have her drop lifelike silk plumeria blooms. The flower girl can carry the orchids in a traditional basket or for more of a beach theme in a beach pail.

Have the Ring Bearer Carry the Ring in a Shell, Coconut Shell or Tropical Wood Bowl

Rather than the ring bearer using a pillow for a more tropical twist have him carry the rings in a real shell, coconut shell or tropical wooden bowl.  An abalone shell or a oyster shell work great. Craft stores typically have a nice selection of real shells and coconuts. A silk flower wrist/ankle lei can be placed around the bottom of the coconut shell and a nice piece of fabric (velvet or silk) inside the coconut shell or wooden bowl to make the presentation even fancier.

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Have a Circle of Flowers

In Hawaii it is common for the wedding couple to have a circle of blooms mark the spot where they will exchange vows. The circle of flowers is symbolic of their never ending love for one another and their eternal pledge they commit to one another in the circle. The wedding couple stands in the circle and the wedding officiant stands outside the circle.

It typically takes 250 loose blooms to create a thin circle. It is more common to use 500-1,000 blooms to create a full circle of flowers or use strands of blooms to more easily create the circle. The photos above show 2 10-foot long lifelike silk plumeria strands forming the circle and 40 lifelike silk plumeria blooms scattered around it. Click here to view the circle of flowers available in our Island Gift Shop!

Incorporate Hawaii Theme Wedding Vows

For religious or non-religious weddings you can easily incorporate some touches of Hawaii into your ceremony and vow exchange. We offer a few specific options on how to do so on this website.

Incorporate a Lei Exchange into the Ceremony

Rather than wearing leis from the start of the wedding some wedding couples incorporate a lei exchange as part of the wedding ceremony. Like the exchange of rings the exchange of leis symbolizes love, respect, appreciation. If either of the wedding couple has children some wedding couples incorporate a lei exchange ceremony to include the child or children to symbolize the uniting of the family. We offer several specific suggestions on incorporating a lei exchange to a wedding ceremony.

Incorporate a Sand Unity Ceremony into the Ceremony

A sand unity ceremony is a more tropical alternative to a candle unity ceremony. The wedding couple starts off with two separate containers of sand representing their lives. They then simultaneously pour their containers of sand into another bottle or vile symbolizing their lives joining together as one, just as the sand. Most craft stores offer beautiful decorative bottles and vile options as well as sand. If the ceremony is held on a beach it is customary for the couple to use the sand they are standing on when doing the ceremony. We offer specific suggestions for incorporating a sand unity ceremony to a wedding.

Incorporate a Hawaii Theme Candle Unity Ceremony into the Ceremony

You can add a Hawaii twist to the traditional candle unity ceremony by using a tropical candle from Hawaii in a real coconut shell or bamboo. We also offer specific suggestions for incorporating a Hawaii theme candle unity ceremony to a wedding.

Have a Shower of Flowers

After the couple is pronounced by the wedding official it is traditional to toss rice or blow bubbles at the wedding couple. A more tropical alternative is to have the wedding guests toss blooms. Some wedding couples provide a small pouch of fresh or silk flowers on each seat at the ceremony while others have several baskets of blooms at the ceremony for the guests to take a handful to toss. The shower of flowers looks great in wedding photos!

Have a Hawaii Theme Wedding Cake

It is easy to turn a simple cake or a formal wedding cake into a Hawaii theme cake by adding an lifelike silk plumeria blooms, lifelike silk leis, or fresh tropical flowers to the cake.

Have a Hawaii Theme Wedding Reception

Once the wedding couple are official you can celebrate by having a luau style reception. We offer additional resources of  specific decorating suggestions, popular luau recipes, and fun Hawaii theme game suggestions to easily create a luau anywhere.

Suggestions for creating a luau anywhere.

Popular luau recipes.

Resource of fun Hawaii theme game ideas.

Photos of Hawaii theme cake and table centerpiece decorations

With our free tips and resources along with Amazon it is easy to create a meaningful and fun Hawaii theme wedding anywhere! Amazon offers a huge selection of luau and Hawaii theme wedding items! Below are our top Amazon picks which complement our tips to easily create a fun festive Hawaii theme wedding anywhere.

Hawaiian Wedding Dress

Hawaiian Wedding Dress

Men's Wedding Short Sleeve Shirt

Men's Long Sleeve Wedding Shirt

Fancy Men's Short Sleeve Bamboo Aloha Shirt

Hawaiian Shirt

Hawaiian Shirt

Women's and Girls Hawaiian Print Dresses

Silk Plumeria Lei Set for Neck, Head, Wrist and/or Ankles

Real Kukui Nut Wrist Lei

Real Kukui Nut Lei

Silk Maile Lei

Real Dovetail Shell with Cowry Shell Leis set of 12

Mixed Set of 50 Silk Party Lei

Set of 10 Fresh Basic Orchid Leis

Bridal Veil Comb

Fresh Green and White Orchid Head Lei with Ferns and Babys Breath

Fresh Purple and White Orchid Head Lei with Ferns and Babys Breath

Fresh Wedding Leis Set with Fresh Deluxe Double Orchid Lei for Bride and Fresh Maile Style Braided Ti Lei for Groom

Fresh Deluxe Leilani Lei

Fresh Deluxe Double Green and White Orchid Lei

Deluxe Cascading Silk Orchid Bridal Bouquet

Cascading Orchid and Calla Lilly Bridal Bouquet

Simple and Beautiful Silk Orchid Bouquet

Fresh Loose Orchid Blooms for Flower Girl to Drop, Shower of Flowers, and Decorating

Tiki Torch 12 pack

Real Coconut Cup for Ring Bearer

Real Abalone Shell for Ring Bearer

Hawaiian Wedding Songs CD

Gum Paste Orchid Spray for Cake Decorating

Gum Paste Plumeria Spray (Frangipani)
Cake Decoration

Edible Wafer Paper Purple Flowers for Cake Decorating set of 24

Edible Wafer Paper Plumeria Blooms for Cake Decorating set of 24

Bride and Groom Kissing on Beach in front of Surfboard Wedding Cake Topper

Wedding Couple with Palm Trees Wedding Cake Topper

Bride and Groom under Palm Tree Silhouette Wedding Couple Cake Topper

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